Question:
I recently found this newsgroup and have to admit that while I find it helpful, it also
depresses me a bit. I was wondering, though, if there were any members of this
group who are in my situation, with uc or chrons affecting college, classes,
work, social life, etc. ? I am feeling pretty alone in this right now and
still asking "why me?" Aren't these college years supposed to be the best? I
am also wondering about my stress level and uc. My doctor says my type-A,
honors student type activity is o.k., but I've heard stress can cause uc (and
after that, flare ups) I am questioning whether I should still apply to law
school next year, given my newfound health problems.
Answer:
I think I can somewhat relate to your situation because I was diagnosed
with UC my junior year (I'm 25 now) of college, and haven't really been
able to have a
significant period of remission since. I took part in many activities
during college
(as it sounds you're doing), and I decided not to let the UC inhibit
me from
doing the things I enjoy. Although I certainly agree that stress can
exacerbate one's symptoms, I really believe that this disease has a mind
of its own and is mainly dictated by biology and bad luck (as opposed to
psychological factors). I have ofetn found that when I'm most stressed
out my symptoms are mild, and when I'm most relaxed my symptoms are
totally out of control (which is the opposite of what I'd expect). I
guess what I'm trying to say is that I think it's really important to do
the things you enjoy and to try not to let your disease limit you--I think
you'll be happier if you pursue all of your interests. In terms of
applying to law school, I say "Go for it!" I began a Ph.D. program last
year, and it's the best decision I've ever made.
Although I'm no longer a full time student I still have horrid memories of running
out of exams to go to the bathroom and trying to convince the teacher I wasn't
cheating. I am taking one graduate class a quarter and I do work full time at a
university. Some suggestions regarding school. Register with the office for
disabled students. Let them know that your uc may effect your studies. I would
notify your instructers that you have uc and may have to leave the classroom to go to
the restroom. If they doubt you have such a condition tell them they should call the
office for students with disabilities. If you document your 'disability' then they
are less likely to be able to punish you or accuse you of cheating if you have to get
up and leave a class or exam. I used to sit in the front row, but quickly found that
the chair nearest the door was the best for me. My class is a 3 1/2 hour night class
and I get up on a regular basis.
I've always let my employers and my students know about my uc - If I have to walk out
of a meeting for a few minutes they know I can't help it. It's not like I wear a
sign or anything, but if the opportunity presents itself I let them know.
